Regardless of whether you are a guide or not, you can always see it as a gift to develop yourself. For those of you who follow my blog, you for sure know that I have written many words about this specific topic. But today I will view it from an new angle. Motivation is a good thing, but as we all know this is a characteristic depending from day to day quality and also will be influenced of depends as of our mental attitude. What I mean is If you don’t got the knowledge or experience the motivation can’t save you in all situations, that’s how it is. So what then? Well, if the motivation cant help you what could be the key then?
Lets talk a bit about habits, ok, then you might think -habits what? You been talking about that before, and how long does it take to set a new habit, if its really possible to do that? Hm, well, lets us begin with small steps, think about a habit that you want to establish. One example can be -I really want to read more. Connect this with an existing habit. If you go with the commuter a couple of days in the week, you can use that time, for building a new habit. Or if you go to bed, read first and brush your teeth after. Make it easy to do right thing. This means that small habits can lead to big changes. But with small steps, and anchoring with already everyday functioning habits…
Understanding the crossroad. Are you ready for the next step? Lets talk about the crossroad. If you want to become a 2.0 version of yourself, this will be a really important key for you, to take that step. The ability to effectively adapt one’s cognitive and behavioral strategies in response to changing task or environmental demands is a crucial capacity we all can and need to develop. Lots of nice words, but what does it means in reality? cognitive flexibility is all about your brain’s ability to adapt to new, changing, or unplanned events, and to become aware of one’s thoughts. If you are standing in a situation where you have a choice, a crossroad. In your inner you will know what should be your right choice, but the other way might become easier, and less problematic. Standing in the crossroad, use 5 seconds to reflect (cognitive flexibility) disconnect, and choose your valued direction, where your lead star leads you. Example, if one of your habits will be to avoid cinnamon buns every day while passing the local bakery. At the morning on your way to work, passing the bakery and the smell from cinnamon bun dance into your nose. Now, take five seconds to reflect on your thoughts. And make the choice (important here is that it should not be a feeling of guilt or shame) And some day of course, you might choose the cinnamon bun:-). But you take a decision related to your own values, to become a better you.
I will do a review of the Fjällräven Keb jacket. The Men’s Keb Jacket from Fjällräven is a functional outdoor jacket for men, combining wind- and water-repellent G-1000 Eco in recycled polyester and organic cotton on the hood, shoulders, front and extended back, with stretch in the back, sleeves and pockets. After a first look, I am not convinced. A jacket for this price, I really would expect something more. It is not windproof, either water proof. It is flexible, that I have to give it. But so far due to the price (NNN)
Tobÿ, One Trick Pony – All I Think About (Lyrics)
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